First, it is helpful if the time apart is not longer than the time that the relationship actually lasted. If the relationship only lasted for a few months and the two of you have been apart for a year, chances are, this is not going to be successful.
Next, if the target is involved with someone else or even has an interest in someone else, this needs to be ended to clear the way for reconciling your own relationship. There are two different ways to do this. The first is when you know the identity of the other person. Then a break up spell can be cast on both of them to end their relationship and interest in each other. The other is for when there is no information about the other person. In this case, the break up spell can be cast directly on the target to end any relationship/interest (with the exception of you) that they may be involved with. If you do not know whether or not there is someone else, the chances are that there is. Realistically, how long does an ex really wait around without having atleast an interest in someone else.
If the ex broke up with you and says that it is not because of someone else-
they need to focus on themselve right now,
they do not want to be in a relationship at this time,
they need time to figure out what they want in life,
they do not know what they want,
THESE ARE SOME OF THE MAIN EXCUSES THAT ARE USED WHEN THEY HAVE INDEED FOUND SOMEONE ELSE. Most people would rather give no reason for breaking up than to admit it is because they have found someone else-it is just human nature. If the person breaks up for no apparent reason, chances are that it is because of someone else. So it is up to you to end the interest in the other person and clear the way to bring this person back into your life.
If there were other issues that helped to end the relationship like-
negative influence from friends or family,
jealousy over exes,
fear of commitment issues,
trust issues,
ANY of these issues also need to be addressed to correct them so that the relationship can be not only restored but to eliminate the problems that ended it in the first place. There are spells that can be used to address and correct each one of these issues. Use them.
Finally, the Love Spell itself. A Bring My Baby/Lover Back type of spell is going to bring back the same kind of relationship that existed before. If the relationship was plagued with problems, do not chose this type of spell. Choose a spell that will improve the relationship, like a Custom Lovers hex. If the relationship was very good and a misunderstanding ended the relationship-but aside from that the relationship was good, committed, and strong, then Bring my Baby Back would be the appropriate type of spell.
An Obsession Spell, Dream of Me, Lust-ANY of these type of spells are not Love spells and will not influence the emotional feelings. These spells are to make the target think about you, put you in the targets mind and increase physical attraction. These influence the mental and physical feelings-not the emotional ones.
When waiting for spellwork to take effect, it is VERY important to avoid negative contact with the target. Spells work by influencing the target. People are more easily influenced when they are calm-not when they are angry, anxious, stressed, etc. It is extremely important to give the target space-DO NOT make the target feel like they are being stalked.
No amount of spellwork can help a situation when a target has been driven away to the point of hatred. People can say that they hate you-they can say all sorts of things that they do not mean when they are angry. But if the relationship has gone past the point of return and the target feels genuine hatred, then it is very doubtful that anything would be able to turn things around. Hate is one of the strongest of emotions and will block the influence of a Love spell.
If the Love seems gone, as long as hate has not seeped in, the relationship has a chance of being brought back.
Patience and positive attitude is one of the main factors in successfully bringing back an Ex.
Obsessing or having negative attitude will hinder the spellwork and harm the chance for success. Relationships that had a lot of positive history are going to be more easily restored than ones whose history was mostly unhappy.
Spells can do some miraculous things in reuniting lost love. Even people who have been apart for years and years can be brought back together. But not every relationship is able to be restored. There are those cases where the people simply are not meant to be together. They bring pain and misery to one another and are truly meant to be with other people.
Be careful what you wish for. Make sure that the relationship is really what you want. If you know that you love this person and the two of you are better off with each other than without each other...then you go for it! Make a "Happily Ever After" ending of your own.
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